Showing posts with label Trust. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Trust. Show all posts

11.25.2008

Dealing with Control Freaks

Everybody's got at least one. Wishing us all luck @ the holidays.

Control Freak Coping Strategies
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  • Stay as calm as you can. Control freaks tend to generate a lot of tension in those around them. Try to maintain a comfortable distance so that you can remain centered while you speak with them. Try to focus on your breathing. As they get more agitated and demanding, just breath slowly and deeply. If you stay calm and focused, this often has the effect of relaxing them as well. If you get agitated you have joined the battle on their terms.

  • Speak very slowly. Again the normal tendency is to gear up and speak rapidly when dealing with a control freak. This will only draw you into the emotional turmoil and you will quickly be personalizing what is occurring.

  • Be very patient. Control freaks need to feel heard. In fact, they do not have that much to say. They have a lot to say if you engage them in a power struggle. If you just listen carefully and ask good questions that indicate that you have heard them, then they will quickly resolve whatever the issue is and calmly move on.

  • Pay attention to your induced reactions. What is this person trying to emotionally induce in you? Notice how you feel when speaking with them. It will give you important clues as to how to deal with them more effectively and appropriately.

  • Initially, let them control the agenda. But you control the pacing. If you stay calm and speak slowly, you will be in command of the pacing of the conversation.

  • Treat them with kindness. Within most control freaks is a good measure of paranoia. They are ready to get angry and defend against what they perceive is a controlling hostile world. If you treat them with respect and kindness, their paranoia cannot take root. You will jam them up.

  • Make demands on them-- especially when dealing with the type 2 control freak. Ask them to send you something or do something for you. By asking something of them, you will be indicating that you are not intimidated or diminished by their behavior patterns.

  • Remember an old but poignant Maxim: “Those who demand the most often give the least.”
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8.27.2008

Haskell Wexler's "Who Needs Sleep?"



Must research where I can get my hands on this film.

Ah-ha! One may order the DVD HERE.

Current job "City Island" has been darned civilized, I'm guessing primarily due to the producers' and director's inherent humanity, and less so, budgetary concerns, since by our contract after 14 hours the crew goes into triple time.

[Film's web site]
[Haskell Wexler's Blog]

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7.19.2008

Make Media Any Time, Any Where w/Seesmic as tool

Posted earlier the beginning of a conversation about my process of being part of "City Island" with Seesmic as conversational film making tool.

It's been a while since I played @ Seesmic, but their player - to which one may reply in video without ever leaving my page - brilliant - has grown up. Come of age.

All you need is a webcam, Camtwist, and a Seesmic account.

Everybody on set's got one.

Most sets have wi-fi.

Show folks what's what in 3 minutes or less.

It's really fucking easy.

We're all film makers, damnit. Superior technicians.

Why wouldn't we make media?

The question is: can we do it right? Will production trust us with the responsibility? Will something beautiful be made of it one day? What will the unions make of this? Are we not all bloggers / videobloggers / still photographers / prop masters / film makers?

Cheap tools & technology, baby.

Should we not reap benefits from this expanded endeavor all the way around?

Seesmic.

Think high-tech, lo-fi.

Think ubiquitous.



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2.26.2008

Re-Vlog :: Lessig's 10 minutes to announce two ideas


Announcing exploratory work to launch the Change Congress movement, and exploring the idea of Lessig running for Congress.

2.12.2008

Hotlinking Croma :: Revlog :: Tag



Croma strikes.

Have watched this half a dozen times. Never fails to take me somewhere unexpected.

You're it.

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1.19.2008

Plant Postcard :: To Jen

If plants could speak, this is what they'd say to Jen.

8.07.2007

Word of the Day :: Usury


Usury.

Elect only those who pledge to deal with banking laws in meaningful ways.

Elect only those who are not backed by big corporations.

Elect the persons who spend the least on their campaigns.

Throw the moneylenders out of government.

Pay more.

[source - 8/5/07]
[direct download the podcast]
[Danny Schechter's "In Debt We Trust" site]
[Watch "In Debt We Trust" on Google Video]

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3.01.2007

Videobloggers :: at the Cutting Edge of Advertising

I swear to Dog that videobloggers hold the future of advertising in their heads, hearts & hands.

MSM will find in what we do all the ideas they need to transform advertising into a thing that works without insulting or dumbing down its audience in the process.

Because I don't want to bore those of you who may not be interested in this more esoteric collection of the best thinking on the subject, I've started a new multi-media blog / vlog over HERE. Mostly collections and references to others' work I find smart and compelling.


"People say" there's not enough content out there for advertisers to gloam onto. Beggin' to differ, but I say there are not enough good corporations / products for new media creators to support with ads.

Naw. That's not exactly true. I believe in YOU. And YOU. And YOU.

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2.25.2007

Vlogvertising Vloggersation


Michael Verdi speaks to the state of vlogvertising HERE. In the post, he links to one of Jay Dedman's 2006 vlogs on the subject of advertising A click-through is worth a trip.

I've been experimenting with vlogvertising for a long time. As the first human being to have purchased an ad on a vlog, can say that for the nonce, vlogvertising remains in its infancy, and as every parent knows, infancy includes sleepless nights and dirty diapers. For all that, there remain rewards.

Have been experimenting with Blip.tv's advertising options. Certain choices are allowed for:

  • mid-roll video
  • post-roll video
  • post-roll clickable text cards
  • stills / animated gifs embedded in the post page
  • one-by-one, or all of the above
These items are frequently discussed on the Blip user group, so I have no qualms saying it here, too. As a producer, I need to be able to choose what products I support, and on a per-post basis.

I must be able to choose specific ads, too, based on whether I think my audience will respond to them, but more important, whether I find the ads authentic, interesting, and compatible with the mood of the video at hand. Better Bad News had a recent vlog that envisions startups auditioning venture capitalists rather than the other way around. Like THAT.

Blip's hot on the trail of these things.

In the meantime - as far as I can tell - no automated vlogvertising site offers choices of advertisers or specific ads (though you may 'blacklist' keywords for - immen.se - one of Blip's advertising partners). Until that happens, content creators create in-house advertising for people, places, music, events and products we believe in. But that doesn't provide content producers with direct compensation.

Why the hell not?

Paid advertising-as-business-model is flawed by definition. It is by its ruthless nature corrupt in its use of hyperbole and lie. Morally flawed so deeply that in my heart I suspect any company (or politician) that stoops to advertising of disingenuousness.

That is in part why big stakes are increasingly good indicators of subjects unworthy of my attention. It bugs me out that Apple's iTunes / iPod images are everywhere.

I support imperfection. Small enterprise.

MacLeod asked a while back where he thought marketing was heading and I told him.

Think:
  • Sets not billboards.
  • Wardrobe rather than SWAG baseball caps.
  • Playgrounds rather than couches for couch potatoes.
  • Jazz improv rather than rock n' roll.
  • Paying more.
  • Better products.
[DISCLAIMER: As an independent producer, I have a vested interest in taking down OLDSTREAM MEDIA and their OLDSTREAM MARKETING / ADVERTISING methodologies. Using tits and ass to sell shit is shooting fish in a barrel. Where's the fun in that? Where's the sport? I want a highest-common-denominator life. Period. I'm the long tail with education and money to spend.]
The enclosed video bears repeating. The 100-post-long Vloggersation to which this vlog post responds is to be found HERE.


Fish in a barrel.

[Download the Quicklime version HERE.]

Were Coca-Cola to donate its entire 2008 advertising budget to education - say media literacy - and spend 2007 talking about it, now, that would be cool. Spend that budget on AMERICA and its future.

Finally, social currency must be added to the sustainability equation. Advertising mathematically deflates social currency, as the recent Pay-per-Post flap so clearly illustrates.

What inflates social currency?


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2.16.2007

Listening to Radio in Second Life

Reading the NY Times while listening to the Presidential Podcast in Second Life.

Uh-oh.

2.15.2007

Media Mashup :: The Poetry of Political Speech

Playing with the smartest guy not in the room, Bill Moyers, and the unremarkable footage of the Dems' response to the State of the Union address.

2.11.2007

Re-vlog :: GapingVoid Valentine's Day Vulnerability


Vulnerability is hot.

Hugh gets pretty darned vulnerable here.

The capacity for vulnerability is but one of the charms of blogging, vlogging (and less-so, podcasting for some reason), where individual and corporate blogs / vlogs allow for a measure of vulnerability.

Vulnerability is risky but opens up possibilities for great rewards.

Thanks for reminding me to be more vulnerable, Hugh. That's my mantra for the week.


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2.07.2007

Have Money Will Vlog :: Family Life Behind Bars



A look into the abyss.

Have Money Will Vlog
's got another facsinating project going, this time advocated by videoblogfather Jay Dedman.

Project creator Sandeep Junnarkar is an award-winning journalist who wrote frequently for the New York Times, and is a journalism professor at the City University of New York’s Graduate School of Journalism.

Using micropayments in a new version of online film studio system, HMWV continues to help fund videoblog projects that burrow under our cultural skin.

Required Amount: $ 2500.00

Click here to Donate

Send Money.

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1.24.2007

FREE PRESS :: Freedom Protest Proposal :: My Tax Protest :: Pay More


In March 2007 video blogger / independent journalist Josh Wolf will become the longest-jailed journalist in history. Here's what I have to say about the matter in audio form.

Frankly, what happened to Josh - in jail for contempt of Grand Jury since September 2006 - scared the shit out of me. So much so that I've not been as supportive of his cause as I might have been.

Forgive me, I'm a recovering pussy.

Beyond the fear of government scrutiny and reprisal, what made me reluctant to support Josh (though I did contribute a small sum to his defense fund) was that the summer 2005 anti-world-trade protest included violence, not only on the part of the police but on the part of protesters.

I do not condone violence.

Now, this has gone too far, too long. I cannot remain silent. I'm not afraid. I've nothing to lose. Nothing is more import than to live free.

Chris Peck's article in the Memphis Commercial Appeal explains Mr. Wolf's situation in clear detail. That Josh Wolf is a journalist is not up for debate. He was paid by a television station for his footage. It aired. Is payment not the definition of a professional?

A few things are certain:

  • We must have a Federal Shield Law for journalists.
  • Josh Wolf should not be in jail.
  • The press corps needs to grow some balls and ask and answer the hardest questions regardless of consequences.

What's happening to the Constitution is a nightmare. Wake up. Wake up. Wake up. We're in a media-induced coma, drugged by television and horrid food created with addiction to salt, sugar and shelf-life in mind.

Tune out corporate media. I'm begging you.

God help us. God Bless America. Let us prove that freedom is not an illusion created to mollify but rather, created to lift we - the people - up to the highest rather than the lowest expressions of our humanity.

Sundays @ Noon: a Proposal for World-Wide Action in Support of Freedom

I propose that folks everywhere devote one hour a week to peaceful protest for freedom. Sundays at noon. Go out of your house, plant yourself at the side of your street and stand in support of freedom for an hour. Carry a simple sign, make a hat or tee-shirt and say on those things you make what you love about freedom. As you stand there, imagine yourself free.

At the moment, I'm going to work on having the balls to do this. I live on a busy street near an active Roman Catholic church. Lots of people will see me. Oh, what shall my sign say?

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He or she who runs for President with defending the Constitution as the #1 plank of his or her platform will get my vote. He or she who has the balls to say that empire is morally wrong as the #2 platform gets my vote and for the first time in my life, real money given to a politician.

I've been deeply disappointed in this my country for a while now. Currency is often a canvas upon which I "paint". The best "fuck you" I know is to give an adversary something they think you should at all costs hold onto. It is said that I should value and hold onto money above all things. To that I say a definitive, "No." Take it. Take it all. In the meantime, I shall give it to you even if it hurts. And believe me, there have been times in the last 5 years when I've been hurting financially. Because I do not file income tax returns, I am ineligible for unemployment insurance benefits.

One long-term currency performance involves becoming a non-filer. That's right, I have not for the last 4 or 5 years filed income tax returns. I do not wish to be that conscious of money. It hurts me as a human being to have money / taxes in my consciousness every time I spend. Do I need to keep this receipt? Is it a writeoff? It takes time and money-consciousness to maintain the required files and stay informed of changes in tax law. I refuse to give the government that part of me that is free from the ideas of value and beancounting. Value and beancounting make my head and heart hurt. Not thinking about money is the greatest freedom imaginable. I love it.

Take as much of my money as you wish, Uncle Sam, really. Just don't make me think about you and taxes every fuckin' day.

I'm prepared to go to jail for this non-filing. There are both criminal and civil penalties for such a thing. But if and when Uncle Sam comes after me, I shall have my say. In court. For the record. And getting the ideas published is what counts. I only want to be 'published' indirectly, you see. Traditional methods of publication don't interest me much. But that's another kind of 'canvas'.

Since I stopped filing returns, each and every pay check includes a voluntary additional Federal Income Tax deduction in the amount of $50. Whether I work one day or five, every paycheck gives the IRS an additional $50 over and above what they withhold.

Call it a bribe. Yes, I'm trying to bribe the U.S. government to stay out of my head, my body, and my bed. It hurts to pay more, but that pain is the way I know it's the right thing to do as an artist.

A Promise

I will give every dollar of that not-insignificant amount of money now held by the IRS to the presidential candidate who runs on an anti-empire, freedom platform. There are no more important issues at hand.

Well there are these issues, too:

  • Bring the troops home from the middle east
  • Forgive loans to emerging nations
  • Extract ourselves from foreign oil dependency by investing heavily, heavily, heavily in energy alternatives
  • Drastically smaller federal government
  • Simplify the tax code
  • End the racist war on drugs
  • Make the teaching profession exactly that, a profession, with professional-quality money
  • Unconsolidate the media
  • Leave abortion issues to the states. Gay marriage too. In fact, all red-herring morality issues are to be turned over to the states. Period.
  • Return the dollar to the gold standard
  • Net neutrality
  • Election reform
  • Campaign reform
  • Governmental transparency
  • Legislate hearts into corporations. Fuck Walmart - pay more.

To implement these ideas will require huge sacrifice as we change energy and corporate infrastructure, but only for a few years as we straighten this shit out. Thereafter, I predict things will get much better all around.

Is there such a candidate? This person must come from neither the Republican nor Democratic stables. Both parties have lost all credibility. We need someone powerful and fresh, untainted by corporate ownership. That means WE have to find someone outside the system to run and give that person millions upon millions of small fiscal expressions of support and our time. A truly grass-roots presidential candidate.

In the meantime, support Josh Wolf (from his website):

Legal Defense Fund





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Don't want to use Paypal?

You can send a check
to Josh's Mom instead:

Liz Wolf Spada
P.O. Box 2235
Wrightwood, CA 92397

Write to Josh
All correspondence may be reviewed by anonymous authorities. All letters must have a return address.

Joshua Wolf 98005-111
Dublin FDC
5675 8th St. Camp-Parks, Unit J2
Dublin, CA 94568

Books may be sent in to Josh, but only through a bookseller. There is a book list on his wiki which has nothing listed at the moment, but the wiki says to address books to him here:

Joshua Selassie Wolf 98005-111
Federal Detention Center, Unit J2
5675 8th Street
Dublin CA 94568

E-mail Josh's Support Team
If you would like to get a message to Josh's support team please send mail to freejosh(at)joshwolf.net and it will be sent on to the appropriate person.

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1.11.2007

Hollywood Endings, Reality & Economics


As usual, McLeod either resonates with or kicks the ass of life-as-I-know-it.

Today's 'toon does both.

Madison Avenue is at the top of my list of extant institutions that make me shake my head with sad laughter - right next to the Press Corps and Government. The visionary McLeod presents us with the future of marketing, and by extension, economics.

Important thinking and doing going on all over the place, not least of which is the Vlogosphere's Have Money Will Vlog.

One of my best friends is an econ-based attorney. He grins at the idea of Rosen's NewAssignment.net sustaining itself through micropayments. Trust is a huge element of his skepticism. Not surprisingly, when I went in search of an appropriate link at NewAssignment, found the above-linked post on the very subject of trust. What my friend fails to understand is the value of sustainability's social currency.

I'm bored with Hollywood endings and figure it would serve me better to concentrate on the reality of pain for a while. Life hurts. Especially a life lived in love. Hearts are made - made - to break. That's what they do.



Toward making tracks in that direction I mourn with my family the loss of Moss, a good dog. Nay, a great dog; a more loving, loyal gentleman dog n'er lived.

1.01.2007

Dances From the World's Longest Open Love Letter








Contemplating the structure of "The World's Longest Open Love Letter" as documentary.

Download the Quicktime version HERE.

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8.25.2006

Road Node 101 :: Update


Vlog News:

In the newest, coolest news, I'm vlogging with Markus Sandy and Dave Toole @ SpinFlow. Guess this is a disclosure. SpinXpress supports The Faux Press' endeavors in every way imaginable. In return, I support them. It's a marriage of aesthetics.

SpinFlow will have a debut soon. I'll let you know when they feel the site is ready to fly.

Notes About Road Node 101.

So much to say. First, some business.

Node 101 contributed $300 toward Node 101 / Meet the Vlogger / Vlogger Meetup events expenses from what it earned producing Vloggercon.

I've a responsibility to report how it was spent.

  • $150 was spent on food for the Minnesota Vlogger Meetup. Video (including what we got for our money) here. Still await an invoice from Adam to ship to Schlomo for his records. While I told Adam that Node 101 would cover expenses up to $200 / event I hadn't really intended to spend this much on that one evening. Oops. That said, you'll see that Crow River Coffee made a pretty incredible spread for the 5 folks (not including the kids) that showed up.

  • $150 was spent to feed folks at Off-the-grid Geek Camp.

More Road Node 101 Media Ripples:

Ryanne's take on Off-the-Grid Geek Camp at Robert's Montana hideout.

Scoble here and here.

On Road Node v. 2005 from Serra Shifflet.

Kevin Buckstiegel's take on Road Node's Chi-town stop.

David Meade tests cell phone auto posting through Blip during Road Node's Chi-town stop.

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12.04.2005

Grip Strip Ballet :: Paul Rogers Dances


Watch the video

This job and this crew are soooo amazing.
What we won't do for one another to get through the day.

A meditation on trust.

Turning 'ballet' on its ear.

9.18.2005

VlogEurope! 2005 - Travel Tip: single file works in A'dam :: Portrait of Joel Carner


Amsterdam, one step at a time.

Portrait of Joel Carner.


Download Quicktime movie HERE.








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7.03.2005

Road Node 101 :: Not Shamed



Wonder if this wmv file will make it to ANT.

[m4v]
[wmv]

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